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Alhamdulillah, I finally received my 1st salary as a school teacher yesterday.

As I have planned, I'd like to buy things for my family.

And yesterday we went shopping! Geee~

I bought two comfy tees for ayah. I really love the colour!

I bought raya shoes for ibu. I hope the Bonia will bring her to good places!

Britney Spears' Midnight Fantasy perfume for angah. She loves the smell so much, I know it!

And a white 32GB Iphone 4s for apit.

Everyone is happy, especially ME :D

I worked hard and this is how to make me feel good.

They ask me what am I going to reward myself?

I have no idea yet.

But just now Azila (a TESLmate) made me think.

Masters is the best reward for myself.

And I want to do it somewhere I really want to go.

InsyaAllah, I will apply it next year.

Please, pray for me :)

The heart-tie

"When a child is born, he/she is a bless to the parents,

whereas when a child is adopted, the parents are a bless to the child"

Gol & Gincu

I wonder what makes you so determined to leave the house.

You have gone through grave hours with them before,

and now you want to leave everything behind?

Khaleesya cried for an hour till she fell asleep,

just to wait for you.

What has gotten into you?

Mama, Allah won't like this.

You took Khaleesya on your own willingness.

No one forced you to do so.

She is your responsibility.

How can you forget that...

Well, Titanic sinks

As much as I didn't expect that I would end this beautiful relationship,

I am always ready for any bad circumstances.

I said to myself that night when I met him before he went for sailing,

'Fi, you can enjoy this candy feeling but don't put too much hope.'

That made me decide to let him meet my parents later.

Thank God to whisper that to my heart!

I actually was confident with him and myself.

I know, distance won't harm us.

But I forgot there were girls before me,

who now can see he is some useful guy.

Some body told me to fight to get him.

FYI, that kinda spirit has gone dead.

I've used it all for my previous guy.

If you love enough, you'd fight to get him back!

Naah, I love him so I let him choose happiness as he defined.

Dear Basit, no one wants to be the second choice.

I need a timeout.

Today I feel a lot better.

Yet, then I think I shouldn't be compromised with him.

I wanted to leave him, that's what I thought.

But at the same time,

I don't want him to live his previous life.

I'm so confused.

Titanic VII

We had the worst row last night.

Up to now.

I just hate it when someone brings up the sex stuff.

Men, what do you expect Apis?

I don't know.

He never acted like that before.

Before his ex-girlfriend comes to the picture.

I don't know.

I admit that we love to give each other virtual hugs and kisses.

Especially when one of us feels so wrong that day.

Despite we were having great war,

he said to me,

'Thank you sebab banyak ajar saya,

banyak buat saya sabar'

Basit, please don't be angry at me :'(

Titanic VI

My love is not based on lust.

So if I don't give you what you want,

don't you dare to doubt my love.

Faham tak?

Titanic V

Since I'm afraid that people out there will find me gross

for telling too many things about him, so I decided to

make a journal for him. I basically write whatever I want to

tell him. He loves to listen to stories. I hope he'll enjoy my effort.

Actually I want him to get to know people around me through my

own writing. I will write every detail so that he could imagine and feel.

I put their photos and stories. I want him to be a part of this too.

On the other hand, I want him to know that I have several

male best friends who I won't leave behind.

I want him to know so that he'd understand.

Anyway, I enjoy writing love letters and journals.

I always wanted to do this.

Thank you to Basit who makes this possible.

Titanic IV

Ayah asked about him.

How long he'll be away?

What vessel he boards?

How he looks like?

I never saw my dad been so curious.

Yeah, previously I never hid my friends.

I welcomed them home.

Maybe this time I just feel unprepared.

Or maybe, my dad is so curious since I am

dating someone at the moment.

He once asked me,

'Along tak keluar pi dating ke mcm angah?'

I laughed. He is concerned.

Takut anak dara dia tak laku.

Haha.

And, I told him that my dad asked about him.

NOW he IS nervous!

He never met any of his girlfriends' parents before.

He also said I'm the first lady that he brings to meet his family.

(I told him, that is romantic and he said a big fat NO, he is just being nice to me).

Though he is nervous, he sent his salam to my parents.

I didn't tell my parents yet.

I AM nervous.

And he said, he'll pay a visit to them later. :)

Titanic III

I've been a sane girl for years.

I still remember when I was 19, I had this crazy mind.

I went to Kedah alone by bus just to meet my boyfriend.

I mean, I tried to make it up with him.

He had a new girl friend at that time, so I thought I wanted to fight for it.

I lie if I say I don't feel stupid about it.

But on the other hand I told myself,

'Apis, you have tried your best for the relationship. SO, no regrets.'

I face days without a boyfriend for years.

I am truly blessed with good girl friends.

They keep me alive.

I envy them sometimes for having boyfriends to rely on.

To share stories.

To paint future.

Yet, I don't rush with this matter.

Now I can't hardly believe that I'm in love.

I encountered few flirtatious relationships but

I don't want that, for sure.

So  last Saturday. I was 19 again.

I decided to go to KL to meet him in less than 30 minutes.

But this time, it is more meaningful because I have my family with me.

Don't get it wrong. My parents didn't show up in front of him.

We are not ready for that.

Let him come to our home, let him make the move.

He wanted to meet my parents as a man who possesses a job, I think?

We spent two hours double-dating.

Angah and her boyfie Nasaa.

Him and me.

We just talked and looked around KL.

I love the presence of everyone

that I wish we could be family, real family one day.

Basit, I miss you already. :')

Titanic II

10 Things I Hate About Him

1. His sincerity in expressing his thoughts and feelings. - I know the dark side of him.

2. The fact that he told me he likes me. - If he didn't, I wouldn't have known and I don't have to suffer this!

3. His ability to act mature despite his young age. - The 30-year-old soul stuck in him :p

4. His fierce attitude. Just like an army. - Garang macam rimau.

5. His short texts and messages. - He said he is no romantic guy.

6. When he gave romantic signs that I didn't notice. - "Kalau sudi datanglah tengok ma"

7. His no empty promises. He is no sweet talker. - Tak boleh datang JB, takdop duit.

8. His understanding. - Takyah anta, nanti jumpa 5 minit je. Tak berbaloi.

9. The way he encourages me when I face problems. - Tak malu nangis!

10. His homey home and family. - His welcoming ma, the gangster abah, the three brothers, and macik.

I know I will be writing a lot about this fellow in these coming months.

I couldn't say any of these to him.

I'd show my ugly face.

How is he going to survive and enjoy his work if I do such things?

I know I'm going to miss him for he's leaving for good.

He is leaving for good.

He is leaving for good.

Japan, please be nice to him.

Ocean, please be nice to him.

Ya Allah, have him under your protection and bless.

Titanic I

He is leaving for Japan next weekend.

He is leaving for good, InsyaAllah.

She's the one.

Have you ever thought that you are the least selfish person living?

I always think that I am considerate enough.

I think about what others might think, their acceptance,

their circumstances, constraints they might face.

Without knowing that someone who is real close to me,

is far better than me.

That special person is actually my mom.

It happened few weeks back when I was strolling around

the night market. I went with her to find some food.

before we went to the night market, she was actually got upset

because Angah was not home yet. My mom always wants

Angah to drive her everywhere. I am always the second choice.

I'm used to that, I don't mind at all. :)

Back to our story, my mom was real upset. Yet, she

searched for food and drinks Angah might want to eat!

If I were my mom, I won't even think about Angah anymore.

There.

How I wish to have such a pure heart.

How I wish to be the least selfish person on earth.

Albom taught me that, our lives are inter-related with one another,

either we notice it or not. That ideology made me think to

be a good person, someone who doesn't bring burden or cause

bad things. I wish to be a lucky charm to others or at least

someone who brings positive vibes around.

I am so pleased and grateful to have such a mother.

She puts us before her own desires.

She makes us as her priority.

If one day I get the opportunity to be a mother,

I want to the best, for I learn from the best. ;)